* Lady Door needs to stop watching the television. HEAD? MEET DESK.
Channel 2 news interviewing a Yes on 8 supporter. He's been fighting to keep marriage between a man and a woman since Prop 22. "It came up again, and again we worked on it, and it was another success." Mayor Gavin Newsom reignited the controversy by ordering the courts to allow same-sex marriage. It showed a clip from his speech earlier this year, saying something along the lines of 'This is how it's going to be!'
"He was shoving it down our throats. That this is how it's going to be, and taking our freedom of choice away from us. And people don't like that."Do these people hear themselves? REALLY?
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I think a lot of the problem with being against Prop 8 is that people were angry about the "checks and balances" part of our government -- that is, that a body of 7 individuals could overturn what was the will of the voting majority of California (when the court overturned prop 22 as being discriminatory). The Yes on 8 people ran a smart but really misleading campaign about protecting the education of children and traditional marriage.
The Proposition system in California needs serious, serious revision. The kinds of things that end up on the ballot are not the kinds of things that should be up to a popular vote. The People Are Dumb. No one is fully informed on these things, and we are dependent upon the courts and all those people in politics and law who study this stuff for decades to maintain the rights we know and enjoy. When you give someone a choice, they are going to choose what benefits them. Equal rights is not about protecting the comfort levels of the majority -- it's about protecting rights.
Who I marry is none of your business. Whether I go to church is none of your business. Whether I have children is none of your business -- it's especially not your business if it's because I'm physically incapable (either because of plumbing mismatch or infertility) or because I make that choice.
I'm so angry and frustrated with this issue, and I think one of the things that bugs me the most about those who truly support Yes on 8 (not those who did so because the ads looked good, but damn those gullible sheeple to hell) is that their argument is almost entirely faith-based, and there is no arguing with them on any rational level by sheer virtue of their faith saying it is wrong. It is their right to vote according to their beliefs. They think my beliefs are just as wrong as I think theirs are.
But why can they not look past their beliefs, look into this wild, wonderful, beautifully variable world we have, and see that not everyone is like them? That some people make different choices in life according to their OWN beliefs, their own interests, their own ideals for their own lives? Why is it so hard just to let other people live their lives the way they want to live them?
If I can let you teach your children that a zombie who miraculously boozed the local water supply and magicked up some food will rise again and smite from existence all those who didn't believe in Him and His Father (who are the same person/entity, by the way!), you can let me teach mine that Adam and Steve are just as capable of love as Adam and Eve.