Anakin Solo just dies at one point actually. Jacen Solo goes on to pull a total Vader in the next series, Legacy of the Force. Granted, I never read the NJO stuff so I dunno how big Anakin's whole "the dark side is all, like, in your MIND, man" philosophy was, just that ultimately he died and the universe as a whole didn't hold on to the idea for long.
Edit: Personally, I really like Jolee. I think it's for much the same reason I watch the Daily Show; there's just something spiritually soothing about seeing someone look at something very stupid (in this case, the whole "Jedi mustn't love!!!" thing), go to great lengths to illustrate just how stupid it is, and do so in a self-depreciating and shameless manner.