The point of public speaking is to speak publicly. Getting over shyness is a grueling, self-critical process that strengthens public speaking, strip teasing, changing clothes in the locker room, cooking someone a dinner, being honest, feeling comfortable using the restroom next to someone in an adjacent stall, being honest with your parents, sharing your feelings with significant people in your life, growing balls, cutting balls, attacking pubic hair with a razor blade, sharing your iTunes playlist with someone you know'll rain on your parade, any form of unrestrained dancing, wearing a bathing suit without a large t-shirt, sharing your ideas in class, seeking help, offering help, having sex, feeling comfortable watching sex, e-chatting with people you're unfamiliar with, purchasing an eccentric product in public . . . . .