Yeah, my place. It's big enough...probably for even a full con, so a minimeet won't be an issue. I did move recently-ish, so this isn't the apartment but an actual house.
Snowfire: Uh...there's fantastic public transit here. If you're staying in SF proper, likely the best thing to do would be to go from your hotel to the nearest BART station, take the BART to the Colma station, and have someone pick you up there(easy thing to do, it's close by). And vice versa for getting back to SF.
Alright, so date is pretty much set now as nobody's spoken against it. Nov 18-21. So this will also serve as the travel topic for peeps to post flight/bus/ETA for car trips/however the hell you're getting here info in.