I basically agree that the game sounds like slime, and good on Kickstarter for booting it. However, there was one comment from the linked article worthy of an eyeroll:
"murder in general is not treated as trivial or a joke in the same way that rape is."
Ah. No. American gaming culture often treats murder as trivial but is much more tiptoey about rape. I submit as evidence the Grand Theft Auto games and their many ripoffs. You murder tons of people because they pissed you off, because it's fun, because you want their money, etc. and it's no big deal. But as far as I know the main character never rapes anyone (although prostitution is its own brand of ick.). A major game where the main character rapes somebody, and it's treated as trivial, would make waves in the States. And frankly not do so well; I don't think that's smart. The 15-year old GTA-playing masculine culture admires a thug, yes, but there's still an understanding that because you are so manly and awesome, all the ladies at the strip club will be falling over themselves to get with you, if we're doing teen wish fulfillment. Rape is for losers and villains who can't get any themselves. Or, to increase the suaveness of the target audience a bit, James Bond is quite the conqueror of hearts - it'd be totally anti-sexy to imagine Bond raping someone rather than seducing them. (Yes, yes, the idea of easy seduction has its OWN screwed-upness and problems, but nothing new there.)
If the writer was referring to Japanese culture, uh, yeah. Will avoid rants but they definitely seem to be a lot laxer on that taboo, along with the whole "sexual harassment is part of life deal w/ it" attitude. But it sounded like this game was American, so.
I don't know what the Penny Arcade guys were thinking on this.