In San Francisco I met someone in a bar who occasionally crossdressed on weekends, but never mentioned it at work (he was a schoolteacher). He was flying somewhere and had some women's clothing in his suitcase; the airline searched it, and asked him if the stuff was his, and then asked for his employer's number, which he gave. They called his employer, and his employer...didn't fire him, because it was California where you actually can't be fired over that, but he was subjected to harassment and physical violence from the custodian, principal, and staff until he quit. (In Texas they could have just legally fired him, of course). And this is even less grounds for dismissal than the brony above--literally never mentioned at work. We encouraged the guy to file a lawsuit, of course, but he seemed too depressed about the whole situation to take action.
If this doesn't sound like the San Francisco you know and love, that's probably because being white in San Francisco is very different from being black in San Francisco, and he was black.
On a more positive and upbeat note, if you're even slightly into computers, you should read this all the way through, it's hilarious:
https://www.usenix.org/system/files/1309_14-17_mickens.pdf
