Thanks, y'all.
We are hoping it's a dinosaur but doctors are really reluctant to confirm sarupod offspring for some reason? We will probably find out the gender. Neither of us cares what it is but it turns out it's really difficult to relate to a parasite so hopefully giving it a name and treating it like a person we haven't met yet will make it easier.
Yes, we're still going to DLCon.
I am not sure how one does a nerdy baby shower because for SOME REASON that party is still firmly in the clutches of little old ladies who want to drink wine and giggle about how awful your life is going to be when baaaaaaaaabby arrives. Lucky for me, I don't have any little old ladies in my family (and neither does Andrew) so we get to experiment!
We will throw a party in October/November for that stuff but I'd like to bring a cake or something to DLCon. I can't drink so constant celebration is the only way to keep existential terror at bay.